Stronger (What Doesn't Kill You)
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The speaker addresses an ex-partner who seems to expect her to feel hurt and return. Instead, she presents the breakup as a turning point: she is beginning again, focusing on herself, and feeling more confident. The mood moves from defiance toward gratitude, as she says the other personโs leaving became the start of something new.
โStand a little tallerโ is an image of gaining confidence, not necessarily growing physically. Calling herself โa fighterโ suggests resilience: she has faced pain and come through it with more strength. โCome back swingingโ is an idiom meaning to return ready to resist or fight back, rather than giving in. The repeated idea that being alone does not mean being lonely challenges the assumption that a person needs a partner to feel complete.
The songโs message is boldly optimistic, but it need not mean that the speaker feels no sadness or has fully moved on. Her repeated insistence on being strong may sound like genuine confidence, or like a way of reinforcing that confidence after a painful separation. The lyrics leave room for both readings: independence is clearly important, while the emotional process behind it may be more complicated than the triumphant tone suggests.