Stick Season
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The speaker is struggling after a relationship ends. At first, the breakup feels sudden and unfair: the other person seemed to promise a future, then drove away. As the song continues, anger gives way to grief and self-awareness. The speaker admits that they sometimes blame themselves, yet also โlike to play the victim,โ showing how hard it is to face a breakup honestly.
Several images make the loss feel concrete. The โexit signโ suggests a moment when the relationship could have taken a different path, while โtire tracks and one pair of shoesโ reduces the absent person to traces left behind. โThe season of the sticksโ refers to a bare, bleak time of year in Vermont, and the rainy weather becomes a reminder of the ex. The speakerโs โother halfโ expresses how closely their identity had become tied to the relationship.
The lyrics also resist a simple story of blame. The speaker recognizes their own part in the breakup but still feels abandoned, and dreams of a version of the ex that may never have existed exactly as remembered. โI hope this painโs just passing through / But I doubt itโ captures both a wish to recover and a fear that the grief will last. The ending does not offer resolution; โthatโll have to doโ sounds like reluctant acceptance rather than genuine peace.