I Had Some Help
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The speaker responds angrily to a partner who seems to blame him for the relationship falling apart. He admits that he is not blameless, but argues that the partner also contributed to their problems. The mood is defensive and sarcastic, though the repeated admission that both are at fault brings a little more balance near the end.
The โglass houseโ image suggests that someone who has faults should be careful about criticizing others: their own flaws are easy to see. โThrow stonesโ connects to this idea of judging or accusing. The bottle image points to drinking, and the speaker says the partner was involved in making it available. โIt takes two to break a heart in twoโ means that both people played a part in causing the heartbreak.
The lyrics can be heard as a pointed accusation, but also as an attempt to share responsibility rather than accept all the blame. The speaker may be using humor and a familiar sayingโโteamwork makes the dream workโโto make a serious, messy situation sound playful. Still, the song does not establish exactly what each person did. It leaves room to question whether the speaker is being fair or mainly trying to excuse his own behavior.