The Other Side
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The speaker describes a turbulent relationship that has become painful and confusing. At first, love seems impossible to escape; the other personโs affection and hostility pull him in opposite directions. Gradually, he decides he needs a different kind of love and wants to leave. The repeated request to be taken โto the other sideโ gives the song a forceful, urgent feeling, though the ending still carries some hurt and resentment.
The phrase โlike the devil and the deep blue seaโ suggests being trapped between two bad choices: staying in the relationship hurts, but leaving may hurt too. โCryinโ me a riverโ is an idiom meaning that someone is crying a lot, or perhaps that the speaker feels overwhelmed by the other personโs tears. When he says love โblindedโ him but also โopened upโ his eyes, he suggests that the relationship first stopped him from seeing clearly, then helped him recognize what was wrong.
โTake me to the other sideโ most likely means moving on to a new emotional situation or a healthier kind of love, rather than a literal place. Still, its meaning remains open: it could also express a desire for escape from the relationshipโs exhausting cycle. The speaker says his conscience must guide him, which suggests he wants to act according to what feels right. Yet his sharp claim that the other person โhad it cominโโ shows that he may not be leaving without anger or blame.