Dreaming While You Sleep
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The speaker describes a moment when, tired and driving in heavy rain, he hits a woman who steps into the road. He keeps driving instead of stopping, but the event stays with him. The song moves from confusion and denial toward lasting guilt: he wonders whether he would make the same choice again and admits that he may never feel free of what happened.
โKeeping my hands upon the wheelโ suggests trying to remain in control, while โthe miles between would somehow put it rightโ reveals the speakerโs mistaken hope that distance can undo the harm. The repeated image of the woman lying silently, and the plea for her to โopen your eyes,โ imply that she is unconscious or dead; her actual condition is not stated clearly. โTrapped in her memoryโ means the memory continues to burden him.
The song leaves open whether the speakerโs guilt comes mainly from causing the collision, fleeing afterward, or both. His question about taking the secret โto the graveโ points to his fear of confessing, while his wish for the woman to wake suggests a desperate hope that the damage might somehow be reversed. The repeated โall my lifeโ makes the remorse feel enduring, though the lyrics do not tell us whether he ever accepts responsibility publicly.