Without Me
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The speaker describes a relationship in which they cared for someone who was struggling and helped them regain confidence. Over time, that support seems to have become one-sided: the speaker feels used and hurt, especially after learning the other person did something damaging. The mood shifts from devoted and protective to wounded, angry, and questioning.
Several images express this imbalance. โFilled your cupโ suggests giving someone more care or help than they could hold, while โgot you off your kneesโ means helping them recover from a low point. The repeated image of the other person sitting โup there,โ with their โname in the sky,โ suggests success or admirationโbut also distance. The speaker feels that the person has risen beyond their reach and may be acting as if they no longer need the relationship.
The claim โIโm the one who put you up thereโ may be partly a reminder of the speakerโs contribution and partly an expression of pain: they feel their support has been forgotten. The repeated question about whether the other person feels lonely hints that achievement or status may not bring closeness. Still, the lyrics do not fully explain what happened or what the speaker wants now; the repeated โI donโt know whyโ leaves room for confusion as well as resentment.