Wine and Women
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The speaker describes disappointment in love while trying to sound unconcerned. Wine, music, and romance do not bring happiness; instead, they make him sad because he feels he has never received affection. His former partners have left him for other men. As the song repeats, his claims that he does not mind and feels no pain sound less like confidence and more like an attempt to protect himself.
The list โcars and buses and tramsโ suggests the noisy, ordinary movement of the outside world, which contrasts with the speakerโs private hurt. โIf this should end, I will findโ is incomplete, leaving open what he thinks he will findโperhaps another relationship, or simply a way forward. The repeated lines โI wonโt complainโ and โI feel no painโ resemble a reassuring refrain, but their repetition can make the feelings they deny seem more present.
There is a tension between the speakerโs words and the sadness he openly names. He may genuinely be trying to accept the end of a relationship, yet the final admission that he will โcryโ complicates his claim not to mind. The lyrics do not explain whether his sadness comes from one specific breakup or from a broader sense of loneliness, so both readings remain possible.