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The lyrics describe a relationship moving through sudden changes. The speaker first falls in love almost without noticing, then feels abandoned when the other person leaves. When they return and promise to stay, he is happy, but still uneasy about how quickly love can shift. The emotional movement is from surprise, to loneliness, to relief mixed with doubt.
โStagesโ suggests that love has different phases, like steps in a process, and that these phases do not stay fixed. The phrase โrearranging loveโ makes the changes sound as if the relationship is being continually reshaped. Being โleft standing all aloneโ is an image of abandonment, while not being able to reach the person by phone emphasizes the speakerโs lack of contact and certainty. โCome and goโ means to appear and disappear, here describing loveโs changing presence.
The repeated lines about changing stages may sound accepting, as though change is simply part of love. Yet the final questionโwhy love has to come and goโshows frustration and a wish for stability. The lyrics do not explain why the partner left or returned, so the speakerโs doubt remains unresolved. His welcome is sincere, but it does not erase the fear that the relationship may change again.