How Do You?
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The lyrics describe a person who is both needy and harmful. He wants love, belonging, and attention, yet the speaker portrays him as bitter, prejudiced, dishonest, and bullying. This creates a tense emotional movement: the song briefly recognizes his desire to connect, then emphasizes the damage he causes. The repeated question, โHow do you?โ, sounds like an expression of frustration or disbelief rather than a request for a clear answer.
The image of a โstupid babyโ becoming a โpowerful freakโ suggests a disturbing change from helplessness to influence, though the wording is deliberately insulting and may reflect the speakerโs anger. Wanting others to โweepโ could mean he seeks sympathy or wants to control their emotions. The contrast between calling him dangerous and still showing him respect points to a gap between what people know about him and how they treat him.
The speakerโs accusations are sharp, but the lyrics do not explain the full situation or offer the manโs perspective. His wish to belong might invite some sympathy, while his bullying and cheating make that sympathy difficult. The final question could mean โHow can you behave this way?โ or โHow should we deal with someone like this?โ Its repetition leaves the speakerโs response unresolved.