Crying Lightning
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The lyrics depict a speaker drawn to someone whose behavior is strange and provocative, but increasingly frustrated by the relationship. At first, the speaker seems amused by the other personโs odd habits and even loves their teasing games. Later, they approach with reluctance, looking for excuses to delay the meeting. The repeated shift from โlovedโ to โhateโ suggests that fascination has turned into resentment, though the attraction may not have fully disappeared.
The candy details make the encounter feel vivid and slightly childish: the other person chews sweets, offers a gobstopper, and plays โCrying Lightning.โ These ordinary objects contrast with the speakerโs description of the person as โstrange,โ โtwisted,โ and โderanged.โ Comparing their folded-arm posture to โtoothacheโ suggests an uncomfortable, irritating presence. The โthroneโ image makes them seem self-important or in control, while โcrying lightningโ may evoke something dramatic and contradictoryโperhaps an emotional display that is also sharp or unsettling.
The song leaves the relationship unclear. The other person may be manipulative, eccentric, or simply difficult to understand; the speakerโs descriptions are colored by changing feelings rather than offering an objective account. โNot half as impossible as everyone assumesโ hints that others find this person hard to deal with, but the speaker still sees some possibility or appeal. The titleโs meaning is not explained directly, so it may refer to a private joke or a recurring pattern between them.