My Obsession
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The speaker expresses an intense desire to possess someoneโor things that belong to themโand tries to present that desire as reasonable. At first, he sounds confident that the other person would be better off with him. As the lyrics continue, his insistence becomes more revealing: he admits that what he wants is not his to claim, yet says he wants it exclusively. The mood is therefore both teasing and unsettling.
The repeated contrast between โobsessionsโ and โpossessionsโ turns desire into a claim of ownership. โMy mouth is soaking wetโ suggests physical eagerness, while โyouโd know it when you lost itโ hints at a threat or a boast that the other person will regret refusing him. The phrase โgive it to meโ sounds like a demand, and the speakerโs claim that he has โno objectionโ is ironic: he is the one asking to take something.
The lyrics can be heard as a comic exaggeration of jealousy and selfish desire, but their language also raises concerns about control and consent. The speaker says he does not mind being unkind and assumes he can teach the other person, which makes his confidence seem manipulative rather than romantic. The final admission that the person is very young adds discomfort, though the exact relationship and circumstances are not explained.