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(I'm Not Your) Steppin' Stone

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The speaker rejects being used by someone who seems to have moved toward social status and public attention. The repeated, forceful refrain makes the song sound defiant and frustrated. There is also a sense of hurt: the speaker remembers a time when the relationship felt different, but now feels excluded from the other personโ€™s new life.

A โ€œstepping stoneโ€ is something used to move forward, so calling himself one suggests he believes the other person has used him as a means to gain success or recognition. โ€œMake your mark in societyโ€ means become noticed or respected, while โ€œfront page newsโ€ presents the person as suddenly famous or important. The reference to a โ€œbook of Whoโ€™s Whoโ€ suggests a list of prominent people; the speaker says he will not be included in that polished social world.

The lyrics present the speakerโ€™s view, not an objective account of the relationship. His comments about clothes, friends, and social ambition may reflect genuine resentment, but they may also reveal jealousy or wounded pride. It remains unclear whether the other person deliberately used him or whether he interprets her changing circumstances that way.