Needles and Pins
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The speaker sees someone he still loves, but the sight brings painful feelings back. He tries to escape and pray them away, yet the hurt returns. He also admits that pride keeps him from showing his tears or speaking honestly. The emotional movement is from attempted avoidance, to jealousy and regret, and finally to a repeated sense of pain he cannot control.
โNeedles and pinsโ suggests sharp, stinging emotional pain, rather than literal needles. โStole her heartโ means he believes he won her affection, but he now sees that she is with someone else. The lines about getting down on her knees and saying โpleaseโ imagine her eventually feeling humbled or regretful; they may also echo the speakerโs own wish for her to understand his suffering.
The lyrics leave some details uncertain. The speaker says she is โworse to him than me,โ but does not explain what she has done, so this could express genuine sympathy for her new partner, bitterness, or both. He imagines that she will one day feel the same pain, yet he also asks why he cannot admit he is wrong or tell himself he is strong. That contrast makes his confidence seem fragile: he may be trying to protect his pride while still hoping to be noticed or understood.