If Your Girl Only Knew

The speaker addresses a man who has a girlfriend but is trying to get her attention. She imagines that if his girlfriend knew how he was behaving, she would end the relationship and feel relieved. The mood is teasing and confident, but the speaker also sets a limit: she is not willing to become involved with someone who treats his partner badly.

“Trying to get with me” means trying to start a romantic or sexual relationship. “Dissing her” means disrespecting or speaking badly about his girlfriend. The prediction that the girlfriend would “unplug her phone” is an exaggerated, humorous image of her cutting off contact. Repeatedly saying she would not have to worry suggests that leaving him might bring the girlfriend peace, rather than simply making her jealous.

The speaker’s confidence does not necessarily mean she wants the man for herself. She admits she might enjoy spending time with him, yet calls him foolish and says she will not be a fool. This creates a useful tension: the lyrics flirt with the possibility of attraction while criticizing his disloyal behavior. The repeated question, “If your girl only knew,” can sound like a warning, a boast, or playful teasing; the lyrics leave the speaker’s exact level of interest open.