The lyrics portray a flirtatious, sexually direct relationship that may be becoming more serious. The speaker praises a womanโs confidence and independence, says he wants to avoid the dishonest behavior she has experienced before, and hints at commitment by mentioning marriage. Yet he also admits he likes to โmove freelyโ and begins by hoping they will not have a baby, so his promises and his desire for freedom sit uneasily together.
Several expressions suggest confidence and success. โIn her bagโ means she is focused on earning or enjoying money; the Birkin bag and new car reinforce an image of wealth. โFlew the coop at 17, no guidanceโ compares leaving home young to a bird leaving its nest, implying early independence without much support. โThe DM lookinโ violentโ is exaggeration: her social-media inbox is crowded with intense or aggressive messages.
The repeated claim โyou got itโ is broad praise: she seems to have attractiveness, money, confidence, and control over her life. The speaker presents himself as different from her exes, but his boastful tone and explicit opening make that assurance less certain. The song can be heard both as admiration and as a sales pitch from someone who wants her trust while preserving his own freedom.