Rainy Day Man
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The song describes someone in a painful emotional slump who can no longer keep up a cheerful appearance. The speaker urges her to accept that she is hurting and turn to a familiar source of comfort. The mood moves from sadness and defeat toward a quiet offer of support, though the comfort seems tied to difficult times rather than happiness.
โCold and smallโ suggests feeling vulnerable, lonely, or insignificant. The โhole much too big to mendโ presents the hurt as serious and not easily fixed by pretending it is gone. The โrainy day manโ appears to be someone who becomes important when life feels bleak: he does not arrive with sunshine or promises of easy happiness, but is there for the grey days.
The song leaves the relationship somewhat open. The rainy day man could be a trusted person, perhaps a lover or friend, who offers solace when other people and pleasures fail. There is also a hint of dependence: the speaker encourages her to call on him when she feels empty, without explaining whether that support will solve the underlying problem. The lyrics favor honest acknowledgment of pain over a โhappy lie,โ but they do not promise that the sadness will disappear.